IS LOVE ACTUALLY LUST... WHY MARRIAGE TODAY IS A MASSIVE FAILURE

 

 

 

 

 IS LOVE LUST?

   Wait a minute... before criticize Lust how about we define it first?
Lust is not demonic, its not evil, what is evil is putting Lust ahead of Love and all others that matter, when people are ruled by Lust two things happening, either they sleep around with various sex partners or they rape people.
   Lust is defined as a strong sexual desire for somebody... if you look at the above picture you'd see the content of Love, don't let anyone lie to you Lust is a part of love not the opposite of it or the negative of it, Lust becomes a problem when you fail to control it or put it ahead of anything else.

   The reason why marriages today are a massive failure is because we have placed a higher value on Lust and completely bullshitting Love. Remember the old proverb that says "Marriage is not a bed of roses", may be most people have. Love is deep and trust me it hurts, marriage can get boring but how much bullshit can you endure. Walking a woman down the aisle and saying "For better or worse... I do" is not all there is to marriage, the unwritten words of marriage is that "I am ready to be with you and only you, I will tolerate all your flaws and bullshit, even when the love and attraction may fade I will stay with you till death separates us"

   Love consists of TRUST, SACRIFICE, UNDERSTANDING, TOLERANCE, LUST, HONESTY...

   Before you jump into marriage consider learning how to master all six elements because trust me, beauty is not enough reason to want to marry anyone, apart from the fact that beauty fades like flower faster than you think also keep it in mind that BEAUTY CAN BE A BEAST.